Posted 1 week ago
Tue 18 Mar, 2025 12:03 AM
Consent isn’t just a word, it’s a fundamental part of respect, boundaries, and healthy relationships. Whether it’s in friendships, dating, or social situations, understanding what consent is (and what it isn’t) is crucial. That’s why UoN Sport’s "Mullet Over" series has tackled this important topic head-on, helping students start open, honest conversations about consent.
If you haven’t watched it yet, check out the full episode here:
The basics
At its core, consent is about making sure all parties involved actively agree to what’s happening, whether that’s physical, verbal, or digital interactions.
Here’s what consent looks like:
✅ Freely given – There’s no pressure, guilt-tripping, or coercion.
✅ Enthusiastic – It’s a clear, happy, and willing yes, not an unsure “I guess.”
✅ Ongoing – Consent isn’t one-time-only. It can be given or withdrawn at any point.
✅ Informed – People need all the facts before they can give true consent.
✅ Reversible – Anyone can change their mind at any time, and that’s okay.
🚩 What isn’t consent? Silence, hesitation, pressure, manipulation, or assuming it’s a yes just because "they didn’t say no."
Why consent is everyone’s responsibility
In Episode 3 of Mullet Over, UoN Sport takes the conversation beyond the classroom and into the realities of student life. Whether it’s on a night out, in sports culture, or within relationships, respecting boundaries is key to fostering a safe and positive environment at university.
Here’s why this conversation matters for all of us:
- Consent applies to more than just sex – It’s relevant in friendship groups, online interactions, and physical contact in sport, clubs, or social settings.
- Being drunk = No consent – If someone is too intoxicated to make an informed decision, they can’t give consent.
- No one "owes" you anything – No matter how long you’ve been dating, how much you’ve spent on a night out, or what someone has said before, they always have the right to say no.
- It’s on us to call out unacceptable behaviour – If you see something dodgy happening at a party, club, or within your friendship group, step in. You don’t have to be confrontational, a simple “Hey, are you okay?” can make a big difference.
What can you do?
✅ Educate yourself & your mates – Conversations like the ones in Mullet Over help break the stigma around talking about consent. Encourage open discussions with friends and teammates.
✅ Be aware of power dynamics – Societies, clubs, and uni social settings often involve hierarchies. Seniority or influence should never be used to pressure someone into doing something they’re uncomfortable with.
✅ Respect the no – Even if you feel rejected, respect the decision and move on. Consent is never up for debate.
✅ Use UoN’s support services – If you or someone you know needs help, UoN has resources to provide support and guidance.
📍 Useful links & support:
Consent should never be a grey area, it’s simple: respecting boundaries and ensuring everyone involved is comfortable and willing.
